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Officious Pronouncements
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Updates and announcements from the Kittery Kouple, your 'umble 'osts
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153 Posts
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Last post by BuyLevitraNow
in JkdNOKqqAaxZrqU
on April 28, 2009, 06:34:20 PM
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Virginal Entrance (Welcome and Help/Info)
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Welcome and getting-started info for newcomers, and Help/FAQ info for all.
You are expected to have read our policy and rules in this area before participating here -- ignorance of the law is no excuse... This is all too important for excuses. Thank you.
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Last post by Unka Bobby
in WELCOME: Quick-Start Gui...
on January 26, 2005, 04:00:53 AM
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Suggestive Box
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Please, what else is a box for? Be suggestive! For thoughts, that you are having, must surely be of a box? And so, a box is where they go!
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151 Posts
15 Topics
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Last post by The hiding of an inner,No Siamese's here.
in Re: Familyalbum ?
on December 31, 2005, 03:18:09 AM
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Resident Announcements
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Particular bulletins about yourself, of interest to other residents, are posted here |
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455 Posts
70 Topics
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Last post by sammy
in Re: New Relationship for...
on January 23, 2006, 10:18:01 AM
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Foyer -- Introduce yourself, please
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Stop by here and introduce yourself, so we know who you are and what you're here for. Please include your name in the subject... A hundred threads called "Hi" get kind of redundant :)
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2394 Posts
281 Topics
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Last post by Elizabeth
in Re: Introduction of a St...
on February 08, 2006, 03:01:17 PM
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Master Bedroom
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The
Rectory:
Carolyn and her Daddy allow themselves a rare extra luxury with their own
suite, where their Master Bedroom is a lovely adult space, with
king-sized canopy bed and blond-pine furniture, where Unka Bobby
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The other
half of the suite is a custom-designed nursery for her
"Pipsqueak" needs, with hand-crafted adult-sized layettes,
cribs, and a bulging toy chest which justifies his
"pampered-and-punished-princess" petname for her (just one of
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381 Posts
28 Topics
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Last post by Carolyn Faulkner (PaddledLittleGirl)
in Re: Musings . . .
on February 01, 2006, 09:42:30 AM
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Rectory Library
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Our "special stock" library,
where we collect better writings on these Intimacy of Authority™
themes of works of these esoteric themes of submission to
trust and authority, punishment dreaded-but-earned, and the adoration it
requires to live those things in moving and spiritual ways.
The tastier finds from our global safaris in search of the finest prose and literature about these shadowy, moving, unspeakably-intense headspaces, may be shared here with our friends, if they're nice to us. :)
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91 Posts
15 Topics
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Last post by Carolyn Faulkner (PaddledLittleGirl)
in Re: Multiples (M/F)
on January 16, 2006, 07:20:16 PM
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Medical Center
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582 Posts
33 Topics
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Last post by .o~*~o. pumpkin
in Re: in Memory of Dr. Sig...
on February 07, 2006, 10:12:47 PM
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the Bathroom
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Versatile facility with several large, ornate tubs, marble countertops, sinks and vanities, several stalls decorated with Oriental tapestries, and a couple of (adult-sized) training potties in one corner.
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90 Posts
14 Topics
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Last post by Kat
in Trying to make it to the...
on January 21, 2006, 11:40:56 PM
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Intimacy of Authority (Adoring Discipline relationships)
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Having (or seeking) a relationship where real authority and real structure and real discipline are part of your daily life doesn't mean that those things can't be part of your sexuality, too. In this area, discuss these complexities with others who seek the same thing.
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296 Posts
29 Topics
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Last post by sarafina
in Re: Changes between a To...
on January 29, 2006, 01:37:53 AM
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Bottomland
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Just like those who shoulder the weight and incredible honour of providing structure and consequences for you sometimes need a place to sit around and just talk to those who do the same for their Love, Charges/bottoms/Innerkids/etc. sometimes need to just talk with folks who all know pretty well where you're coming from.
Offering the personal authority which you do, and submitting to the discipline which you do, is the profoundest gift we can imagine, and takes *immense* strength to do.
Here you have an area that's only for you and your peers in this lifestyle.
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517 Posts
43 Topics
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Last post by AngelGirl0310
in Update and its mostly go...
on February 25, 2006, 05:09:36 PM
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Topsville
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Whether you're called Sir or Ma'am or Master or Daddy or just Honey, you face things every day which 99% of people in this part of the world couldn't imagine. Your decisions affect someone you love profoundly
But sometimes there are issues that you feel only someone else who lives this life somewhat similar to you can quite understand. Or will have faced the kind of things you wish you could improve on some in your relationship. Here, we encourage Guardians/Tops/etc., to hear out their compatriots, and encourage their lovely Charge to dally elsewhere -- perhaps in the Bottoms-only area, below?
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149 Posts
15 Topics
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Last post by Sorrcha
in Re: Breaking a sub/slave...
on January 19, 2006, 05:16:09 PM
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Adult_Ageplay-friendly Discussion
Adult Ageplay, the Innerkid, "D/lg", various labels are used to refer to regressing an Emotionally-Real "child" within an adult, and this very-often-misunderstood subset of BDSM is embraced very warmly here.
We find that a lot of people who identify with other corners of BDSM, also have found a tender girlish side to their psyche which craves the nurturing flavour of having a "Daddy" or "Mommy" figure, even if they have other less-tender needs.
Still others find that Ageplay is so emotionally powerful that it's the entire lifestyle they crave.
Either way, as in most other BDSM genres, most Adult Ageplay includes the need for structure and guidance and discipline, and so it's a perfect and popular topic here on the Backside of Love.
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870 Posts
67 Topics
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Last post by Brian Pendragon
in Re: Where Age Play Fits ...
on February 03, 2006, 08:02:22 PM
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the "Wet Spot" Speakeasy
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The relaxed, social atmosphere of the Speakeasy is perfect if you have something you'd like to talk over with fellow residents, but it's not something that would fit well in one of the topical Discussion Rooms.
Please check those rooms first, and start a conversation with your thought in one of them if it's on-topic for that oarea.
And if you just have some short spurt to vent, some small, pithy thought such as might be scrawled on a wall somewhere, rather than looking for feedback and conversation about it from others, then please paint it on the Graffiti Wall.
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1742 Posts
114 Topics
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Last post by Malinki
in Re: Dey left da doors op...
on February 13, 2006, 10:21:54 PM
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The Kittery Media Center
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A very comfortable reading room, overstuffed faux-leather recliners all around, all four walls floor-to-ceiling with delicious, enticing, exotic, often forbidden, tales to make your thighs sweat. Ancient wisdom about the shadowy places in the mind and heart and soul... and nether regions... can be found, if one seeks well... |
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105 Posts
26 Topics
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Last post by Sorrcha
in Re: The Perfect Timing o...
on January 20, 2006, 03:13:55 AM
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Dot Calm's "Dweeb's Den" Tech-help Center
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[DOT CALM]
Although the Backside's focus is on the psychology and relationships of Backside of Love themes, there are some ancillary realities that we all share inherently, just by virtue of being here -- such as the fact that we're all using computers, by definition... And we all know how infuriating the connundra of technology can be.
I majored in Computer Sciences (back when computers were manly computers, made from hammered iron and steam-powered vacuum cleaners!), and was a Systems Analyst and programmer in a previous life, and I know that we have other people with technical savvy.
So here's the place to go for help with using these tools we need to live in this Virtual Community... |
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255 Posts
43 Topics
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Last post by sarafina
in Re: Marking messages are...
on January 26, 2006, 08:15:09 PM
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RumpUs Room Roundtable
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This room is for devotees of the Backside RumpUs Rooms (chatrooms) to kibitz about using the rooms, schedule hook-ups there, etc., etc. |
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24 Posts
8 Topics
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Last post by sarafina
in chat log in
on January 06, 2006, 04:11:04 PM
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Meet Market (personals)
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In-search-of ads permitted here. Please be careful, not only with personal information and your physical safety, but with your heart, especially if you're an Innerkid...
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661 Posts
118 Topics
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Last post by shy1
in Re: Greeting everyone
on February 01, 2006, 03:00:26 PM
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Graffiti Wall
Scrawl on the Wall
Short pithy expression, like you might see scrawled on a wall somewhere, is welcomed here.
| If you want to discuss things, have people respond, etc., then please first check our topical Discussion Areas. If your topic wouldn't fit well in one of those rooms, then please post it in the Wet Spot. Thanks! |
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795 Posts
64 Topics
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Last post by Elizabeth
in Re: Which movie star are...
on January 27, 2006, 09:15:17 PM
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Child Boards: ... --- ...
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ORP Grotto
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The Grotto, in the Order of the Red Palm on GI's Backside, is a sanctum for the discussion of Adoring Discipline in DD, D/s and Ageplay relationships, where healthy adult sexuality is part of the authority one person is given over another.
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101 Posts
12 Topics
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Last post by Sorrcha
in Re: good girl pankings a...
on January 19, 2006, 07:35:09 PM
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ORP Rules Roster
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Remembering rules and structure can be a great challenge for many who are loved enough to have them enforced by someone. This area is open for the recording of structure and rules for any residents, whether by their Guardian/Top/etc., so their friends can see how loved they are, or by themselves to help them remember what they really, really ought to be remindering...
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56 Posts
10 Topics
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Last post by bethany
in giving myself rules
on October 29, 2005, 09:07:39 PM
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ORP Confessional
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Confession is good for the soul, and guilt is the spirit-killer. Whether you've behaviour weighing on your mind and need to let your Guardian/Top/etc. know about it here, don't have an authority figure and just need to vent the guilt for letting yourself down... Or your Dom/me or Daddy or Top feels it's healthily-humbling for you to admit your behaviour here, this is a free-zone for purging potentially soul-eating guilt without fear of recrimination or criticism. |
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157 Posts
25 Topics
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Last post by Jazz
in Re: way heavy
on January 28, 2006, 10:47:21 AM
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Dungeon
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Tastefully dungeon-esque room, excellent, discrete sound system, eclectic furniture of all sorts, row after row of implements along one wall, and a huge high-boy bureau, each drawer locked and assigned to a resident for various toys and implements of Adoring D/s play
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274 Posts
32 Topics
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Last post by RedHanded_Jill
in Re: touching the darknes...
on January 06, 2006, 11:05:20 PM
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Wormhole Center for the Geographically Challenged
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Long-distance (LD) relationships are always incredibly hard, but the demands of Backside of Love relationships makes it even harder. Discussion and support for maintaining the emotionally-real LD relationship are welcomed here.
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23 Posts
4 Topics
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Last post by lil catiegirl
in Re: feeling kinda confus...
on May 12, 2005, 01:03:10 AM
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Buscaglia Group-Support Room
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Support group for dealing with the emotional and psychological challenges which many who live Backside of Love lifestyles often face. Extra levels of acceptance and non-critical behaviour are expected here, and of course it must be clear that we can not offer professional psychological services here, but merely peer group support.
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298 Posts
26 Topics
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Last post by sammy
in Re: Am i the only incomp...
on January 08, 2006, 10:50:42 AM
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Rubber Room (Primal Scream)
A sound-proofed room with no sharp objects, so that the rawest of emotions are safe, where discussion of one's life after childhood abuse can be discussed.
A LOT of sensitivity and leeway is expected in this area, for obvious reasons, and Hall Monitors are asked to keep a special eye out here, for any personal attacks or inappropriate behaviour -- but emoting and expressing is considered healthy for handling these things.
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465 Posts
58 Topics
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Last post by kristin26
in Re: Cutter Question
on February 10, 2006, 03:42:03 AM
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Emotional Safety Center
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the Puppy McGruff
and
Officer Willy
Emotional Safety Center
Keeping your heart
safe, while sharing so
much of yourself, can be
hard in a community like
this.
Here are some things
we've learned about
making sure your heart
and soul don't get lost
while you're looking for
what you need.
You have to know
how to be your own
primary Guardian -- it's
not as harmless as
we might wish, even in
communities like this
one, but come on in and
learn how to make it a
lot safer, and
still find what you're
looking for.
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32 Posts
6 Topics
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Last post by Miss Heather
in Re: things i've learned
on February 21, 2006, 10:43:47 PM
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The Ex Files
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The end of any intimate relationship can be agony for the emotionally-oriented person.
But for many of us, the added dimensions and more intricate connections of Backside of Love relationships, can make their loss feel magnified profoundly, as if losing several different intensely-loved ones at once, in particular for the Innerkid, who often has become as emotionally attached and intertwined with her Guardian as a biokid would be.
And so, surviving such a life-altering event (the special nature of which most of the world couldn't possibly understand) naturally becomes regular fodder for discussion in communities like ours. Here, then, is an area devoted purely to these issues of surviving, recovering from, and hoping to avoid repeating, the demise of a relationship as emotionally-intimate and powerful as these tend to be.
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24 Posts
4 Topics
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Last post by Sorrcha
in Re: a thought..
on January 17, 2006, 11:20:44 PM
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Kittery School
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Old-fashioned, well-appointed schoolroom, equipped for Innerkids of all ages, where old-fashioned behavior is, of course, expected...
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469 Posts
14 Topics
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Last post by subversivelittleone
in Re: Story Corner
on February 10, 2006, 03:26:43 PM
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Resident Bedrooms
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Fairly simple, but comfortable bedrooms are available for residents who wish to have their own quarters in the Kittery itself. Rooms are not terribly large, but many have more than one bed, all have nice appointments, and residents are permitted only one room of their own.
(Contact us for building permits if you wish to construct something more elaborate, or have special needs)
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4665 Posts
96 Topics
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Last post by Elizabeth
in Re: Cayles noo room
on February 13, 2006, 08:51:40 AM
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the Playroom
  
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Lavishly-equipped for the care of all Inner-ages, this space is set aside for volunteer Guardians and Sitters to keep an eye on Innerkids who are here without a Guardian of their own
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778 Posts
47 Topics
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Last post by The hiding of an inner,No Siamese's here.
in Re: indoor snowmen
on January 05, 2006, 09:46:23 PM
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Blog Boutique
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Personal Blog journals -- please include your Backside petname in the subject, and one Blog thread per person |
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4049 Posts
76 Topics
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Last post by Jazz
in Re: Today i...
on February 10, 2006, 03:54:27 PM
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Hall Monitors PUBLIC room
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Our Hall Monitors (moderators) do a great job as deputized shepherd-assistants, watching out for predators, tidying up (moving misplaced things to where they should be) and helping out Kittery residents.
Here you can talk to them as a group, to ask questions or register protests, and the like.
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115 Posts
11 Topics
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Last post by sammy
in Re: new island quirks
on December 22, 2005, 10:18:46 AM
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The Writerly Life
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The process of writing is one of the most personal and difficult endeavors. Authors and readers should talk about the process of writing, and the results we want to achieve from it. Advice, constructive criticism, the agony and the ecstasy from either side of the page. |
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37 Posts
7 Topics
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Last post by GI Faerie
in Re: Some Little Question...
on April 22, 2006, 01:05:22 PM
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Submission Submissions
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Post works-in-progress here if you'd like some constructive criticism (start a new thread for each work). Honest, politel, helpful feedback by others is therefore encouraged. |
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123 Posts
12 Topics
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Last post by sammy
in Re: Sammys scrawls
on January 14, 2006, 06:46:25 AM
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The Publishment Corner
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Have you taken your writing to the next level, or ever considered it? Publishing issues for writers, whether aspiring and needing pointers, or veteran with sage advice. |
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Guardian Island's Kittery - Info Center
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