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Introduction
Welcome to Guardian Island
Our reason for existing, is the stunning lack of
understanding out there, about the emotional
realism of the
Innerkid which many
Adult Ageplayers have within them.
Too many of you hide shyly within "communities" of
spanking enthusiasts, BDSM folks, or the many
"diaper fetishists" that include the word
"infantilism" in their descriptions.
There is (of course) nothing wrong with any of
those interests or groups; but they don't much
address the utterly REAL child that you have
within you, who may even make up a big part of the
adult self the world sees, but doesn't recognize
for what s/he is..
We've chosen the word "reParenting" for this
flavor of emotionally real Ageplay.
We know that it was used by a controversial
therapy movement in the past -- and we also know
that many of you aren't comfortable with thinking
of actual "parents" in relation to your Innerkid.
But we seek to explore the concept behind the
label: Of we who find magnificent power, and
emotional majesty, in allowing a very real
Innerkid, to be part of a healthy, profound adult
relationship.
It doesn't matter if your Innerkid needs to be
treated as a Biokid should (utterly real,
non-sexual, and gently), or if their needs mingle
somewhat with your adult self.
Some Innerkids are sexually expressive. Some
require strict physical discipline to create (or
recreate) some fulfillment that they crave.
Others would be horribly traumatized by their
adult side's sexual expressions. Others would
experience corporal punishment as horrid abuse.
We know lots of you, of all flavors of Ageplay.
What your Innerkid needs is okay with us.
Y I K O K.
Your Inner Kid is OK here. [As long as she's not
abusive, cruel, or unmanageably inappropriate -- a
community can't continue to function without
certain limits, as all-encompassing as we'd like
to be.]
We also wish to explore the needs and motivations
of Guardians -- those who are fulfilled by being a
parental figure (even if not in the role of an
actual parent, but a loving authority figure of
some kind) to an Innerkid, within a healthy adult
relationship.
That's a brief overview -- there are worlds
of fulfillment to be explored inside you, and me,
though. So make yourself at home.
Write me if you need anything, have any
suggestions, or just want to talk.
Keep your hat on -- we may end up miles from
here!
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