01. Introduction to GI

[Unka Bobby ~ UB/obby]

Introduction Welcome to Guardian Island Our reason for existing, is the stunning lack of understanding out there, about the emotional realism of the Innerkid which many Adult Ageplayers have within them. Too many of you hide shyly within "communities" of spanking enthusiasts, BDSM folks, or the many "diaper fetishists" that include the word "infantilism" in their descriptions. There is (of course) nothing wrong with any of those interests or groups; but they don't much address the utterly REAL child that you have within you, who may even make up a big part of the adult self the world sees, but doesn't recognize for what s/he is.. We've chosen the word "reParenting" for this flavor of emotionally real Ageplay. We know that it was used by a controversial therapy movement in the past -- and we also know that many of you aren't comfortable with thinking of actual "parents" in relation to your Innerkid. But we seek to explore the concept behind the label: Of we who find magnificent power, and emotional majesty, in allowing a very real Innerkid, to be part of a healthy, profound adult relationship. It doesn't matter if your Innerkid needs to be treated as a Biokid should (utterly real, non-sexual, and gently), or if their needs mingle somewhat with your adult self. Some Innerkids are sexually expressive. Some require strict physical discipline to create (or recreate) some fulfillment that they crave. Others would be horribly traumatized by their adult side's sexual expressions. Others would experience corporal punishment as horrid abuse. We know lots of you, of all flavors of Ageplay. What your Innerkid needs is okay with us. Y I K O K. Your Inner Kid is OK here. [As long as she's not abusive, cruel, or unmanageably inappropriate -- a community can't continue to function without certain limits, as all-encompassing as we'd like to be.] We also wish to explore the needs and motivations of Guardians -- those who are fulfilled by being a parental figure (even if not in the role of an actual parent, but a loving authority figure of some kind) to an Innerkid, within a healthy adult relationship. That's a brief overview -- there are worlds of fulfillment to be explored inside you, and me, though. So make yourself at home. Write me if you need anything, have any suggestions, or just want to talk. Keep your hat on -- we may end up miles from here!

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